Dealing with the end of a BDSM relationship

Dealing with the end of a BDSM relationship

Members only: Sir Lupus read through and commentaryIf you’d like to feel a little “closer to home” and prefer listening to Sir Lupus directly speaking, instead of reading yourself, log in as a member to enjoy an immersive audio stream that will...
What does being a boy mean in Leather

What does being a boy mean in Leather

The use of the word “boy” in the leather scene and more generally in the kinky scene has become one of the most frequent and over-acted terms you can run into. Actually, in Leather Culture, being a boy is an actual Title and comes with a meaning, rights...
The Fear of Bondage is the Fear of giving Trust

The Fear of Bondage is the Fear of giving Trust

In BDSM we confront and face fear in so many ways, both as Doms and as subs. The fear of Bondage is one of the most typical and frequent discomforts for newcomers but also for some old sailors, and it tied to some ancestral and personal instincts. Here Sköll will...
Pain, Degradation and Humiliation in BDSM

Pain, Degradation and Humiliation in BDSM

Preface: This is an article written by the House boy, Sköll. “This boy received a message from a friend last week that caused it to do a double take. He wanted to know how boys training was going, and boy said it was going very well and boy was learning a lot....
When a Dom subs

When a Dom subs

Towards the end of 2018, I am writing this article. It is quite incredible how much life can change in one year. As of today, I am not only not an Owned man anymore; I don’t consider myself interested in subbing anymore, my experiences with “Doms and...