The Fear of Bondage is the Fear of giving Trust

The Fear of Bondage is the Fear of giving Trust

In BDSM we confront and face fear in so many ways, both as Doms and as subs. The fear of Bondage is one of the most typical and frequent discomforts for newcomers but also for some old sailors, and it tied to some ancestral and personal instincts. Here Sköll will...
From weekend Leather to a real Leather Relationship

From weekend Leather to a real Leather Relationship

1989 boys first experience with leather was in 1989. boy was 17 and its then partner took boy to the Detroit Eagle. boy was so nervous on the way there, it nearly asked to change plans but it ended up going. boy was expecting wall to wall sex, and figured it might get...
Dealing with Orders in BDSM

Dealing with Orders in BDSM

Dealing with orders in BDSM and generally in life has never been Sköll ‘s forte, but there was a reason to it, as it’s real hard to understand discipline and obedience when there is a total lack of context and aftercare in one’s experience....