On the Gay Depression Epidemic

On the Gay Depression Epidemic

The Epidemic of Gay Depression and unhappiness in the modern GLBTQI world (excluding the obvious cluster of countries where GLBTQI people live in a fear and oppression regime) is a scientific fact; there wouldn’t even be the need for data to show, as we all know about...
Dealing with the end of a BDSM relationship

Dealing with the end of a BDSM relationship

Members only: Sir Lupus read through and commentaryIf you’d like to feel a little “closer to home” and prefer listening to Sir Lupus directly speaking, instead of reading yourself, log in as a member to enjoy an immersive audio stream that will...
the Meaning of Punishment in BDSM

the Meaning of Punishment in BDSM

When it comes to punishment in BDSM , there’s always a lot to say. Most kink people nowadays talk about punishment as a way of flirting and introductory conversion (eg. a Dom telling a sub online “I’ll punish you, fag. I’ll strap you to my...
The Fear of Bondage is the Fear of giving Trust

The Fear of Bondage is the Fear of giving Trust

In BDSM we confront and face fear in so many ways, both as Doms and as subs. The fear of Bondage is one of the most typical and frequent discomforts for newcomers but also for some old sailors, and it tied to some ancestral and personal instincts. Here Sköll will...
Dealing with Orders in BDSM

Dealing with Orders in BDSM

Dealing with orders in BDSM and generally in life has never been Sköll ‘s forte, but there was a reason to it, as it’s real hard to understand discipline and obedience when there is a total lack of context and aftercare in one’s experience....
The Primal Fetish

The Primal Fetish

Primal Fetish vs Dog Training. k9, dog training, pup play. These are all terms quite known in the BDSM – Fetish community (more in the second one, actually). But in the past, it used to be something quite narrowed down to a selected nieche inside the vaste world...