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Protocol levels in BDSM
How does a BDSM person adhere to Protocols when in social situations? There are three levels of Protocol in BDSM that allow you to achieve this. Here’s how.
BDSM Protocols
Discover and learn the basic ground BDSM Protocols that you should start implementing right away; these Protocols apply to both Masters and slaves.
About BDSM
BDSM stands for Bondage Discipline Domination Submission Sadism Masochism: a lifestyle and sexuality based on consent and power exchange.
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Leather Protocol, Code, Etiquette
Protocol levels in BDSM
How does a BDSM person adhere to Protocols when in social situations? There are three levels of Protocol in BDSM that allow you to achieve this. Here’s how.
BDSM Protocols
Discover and learn the basic ground BDSM Protocols that you should start implementing right away; these Protocols apply to both Masters and slaves.
What is Old Guard Leather?
What is Old Guard Leather in the BDSM World? Old Guard Leather is one of the most misunderstood lifestyles and disciplines. Find out more about it in our post.
10 BDSM Mistakes Dominants make
Members only: Sir Lupus read through and commentaryIf you'd like to feel a little "closer to home" and prefer listening to Sir Lupus directly speaking, instead of reading yourself, log in as a member to enjoy an immersive audio stream that will appear here....
Recon’s Podcast on Old Guard
The point of view of a Old Guard Leatherman towards Recon’s Podcast about Old Guard vs New Guard. Being a Leatherman is not a fashion statement, here’s why
Should you address a stranger SIR?
Should you address a stranger SIR when in a Leather Club or online? This is a controverse topic, which we believe needs an explanation once and for all.
What is a Leatherman
What is a Leatherman ? Is it about wearing Leather? Do we call people wearing cotton “Cotton men?”. No we don’t, as being a Leatherman has a specific meaning.
The 10 dos and don’ts when looking for a Master
Are you looking for a Master who’ll own you? Are you sure you know what that means? Here is a quick list of do’s and don’ts that should help you
Do you need to buy Leather to be Old Guard?
Many people think that being a Leatherman requires you to buy leather, or that owning gear qualifies you as Leatherman. They couldn’t have been more wrong..
What does being a boy mean in Leather
Many people nowadays use the title “boy”, mostly coming from porn where Dominants would address every bottom as a boy. But What does being a boy mean in Leather
The Meaning of the collar in BDSM
Nowadays many people wear a Collar, mostly as a fashion statement or to follow a trend. What is the true meaning of the collar in BDSM and Old Guard Leather?
CLOTHES FOLDING ROUTINE
Proper Etiquette, Protocol and Tradition are fundamental for an Old Guard Leatherman. Discover how to properly do Clothes Folding Routine here
BOOTBLACKING
With the help of John Weal, here is an extensive weekly Boots care guide for Leathermen who want to respect their Boots. Learn bootblacking with our post.
LEATHER CARE AND CLEANING
With the help of John Weal, here is an extensive guide on how to condition and clean your Leather gear. Read more on Leather Care and Cleaning
Who is a slave in BDSM?
Many submissive bottoms call themselves slaves nowadays, but what is truly a real slave? Discover who is a slave in BDSM and Leather.
Being a Leather Master
Disclaimer: The Code: is LeatherBigWolf's personal Old Guard inspired lifestyle Code and Laws. It is the closest to Traditional Old Guard that I can maintain. Other people might have different views. These are the Laws, to me. A Leather Master is a man...
The mind, the Spirit, the people
About BDSM
BDSM stands for Bondage Discipline Domination Submission Sadism Masochism: a lifestyle and sexuality based on consent and power exchange.
Is Old Guard Leather Sexist?
Some people ask if is Old Guard Leather sexist, but this is like comparing apple and oranges. Read more to discover why
Low sex drive?
Have you been experiencing low sex drive lately and you’re freaking out? Try out our interactive blog entry, and you’re nor alone, nor broken.
On the Gay Depression Epidemic
The Epidemic of Gay Depression and unhappiness in the modern GLBTQI world (excluding the obvious cluster of countries where GLBTQI people live in a fear and oppression regime) is a scientific fact; there wouldn’t even be the need for data to show, as we all know about...
Dealing with the end of a BDSM relationship
Dealing with the end of a BDSM relationship can be the hardest thing to do, and can leave permanent scars on both sides. Here is Sir Lupus’ suggestions on it.
the Meaning of Punishment in BDSM
What’s the meaning of Punishment in BDSM? Is punishment associated with the sexual practices, or is it something that has nothing to do with them? …
On normalizing bareback anal sex
With the arrival or PreP gay people seem to have forgotten what a condom looks like. Do you have the balls to stand against this trend of Gay Bareback Sex ?
The difference between Old Guard and Kink
Generalizing, we can define being kinky as both a sexual identity and sexual orientation (which involves specific practices) that stems from following a Fetish
Boy’s reaction to Poliamory and poligamy
Accepting Poliamory and Poligamy in a Leatherfamily Egoistic poligamy vs consensual Poligamy In boys life, boy has dated some really nice guys.
Financial Domination in BDSM vs Sex Work
Those who call themselves “cashmasters” are 99% of the times not Masters at all, but just kids stealing your money with a lie. On Financial Domination in BDSM.
The Fear of Bondage is the Fear of giving Trust
My name is Sköll and I’m LeatherBigWolf’s Leather boy in Training. In this article I talk about my fear of Bondage and how Sir helped me out of it.
Pain, Degradation and Humiliation in BDSM
Many people think BDSM or Leather Life is about being abused and humiliated. Discover why it’s the contrary. About pain degradation and humiliation in BDSM.
When did queer culture become toxic?
It was supposed to be about loving each other and making everybody feel in a big family, yet almost no one feel it. But when did Queer culture become toxic?
Dealing with Pain in BDSM
Why do people seek pain in BDSM? Discover more about pain, the sensation and its meaning in BDSM. Read more..
The Wolf Spirit – more than a fetish
Real Dog Training in BDSM it’s far more than a fetish made of a mask and a tail. It’s much more. Read the full article on “the Wolf Spirit. More than a fetish”.
The Mister Leather Title
Title Holders used to be figured to look up to in the gay Leather Scene. Nowadays Mister Leather Title has became a beauty queen contest in most cases. Why?
The Primal Fetish
LeatherBigWolf shares his own experience in Primal Fetish and Dog Training when he learnt how to let his Wolf come out and be alive.
Why gay men wear Leather
Most of the gay people nowadays wear leather because they think it’s cool and it’s a temporary fashion for instagram. But why do gay men wear Leather really?
Life of us Leathermen, through real stories and more
When a Dominant submits
What happens when a Dominant submits? What are the different dynamics in play, and what is the value of said submission? If you are a Dominant who has subbed to another Master, you know what we're talking about both in the positive and negative aspect, like when a...
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How did CoVid19 affect my Journey in Leather
How CoVid19 kept this boy away from its Master for one year and a half, and how its journey in Leather was affected.
From weekend Leather to a real Leather Relationship
From the Weekend-warriors scene to a real Leather Relationship about absolute trust and commitment. My wrong views on gay Leather as a boy. Read more…
Of Wolves, Dragons and Men 2: a Real BDSM Story
Preface As life never goes exactly the way you've planned, unfortunately the relationships in this Real BDSM Story are not continued. Partly because my Mentoring was over, and I want to fully move to be the Master I am, partly because these people had other plans in...
Of Wolves, Dragons and Men – a real BDSM Story
This article was written in late 2016*** Berlin have always been a place I felt unnaturally attracted to. It's not about the Folsom Europe events and the scene; of course having what used to be one of the most interesting venues in Europe to happen there made it even...
My life as an owned Leather Alpha boy
An article talking about Master Lupus as an owned Leather Alpha boy during his Mentorship training in Brussels
WORKSHOPS
Single Tail and Whipping Workshop for Beginners
Learn the basics in Whipping and Flogging in this free first Chapter of LeatherBigWolf’s Whipping Beginner’s Workshop with single tails, floggers and more!